You can, and you should. We all need a helping hand of a community, and a community to heal. We are social beings. And we carry the responsibility for not helping, too.
“A child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.“
I’m not sure you are familiar with the way some traditional communities treat, say, single mothers.
The system is, that if you make unfortunate choices (such as moving away from your support network and carrying your life savings where you can forget them) and do not have anything (such as skills or low morals) to compensate, life is going to be hard. That has always been the case, that will always be the case. What the consequential decisions are, differs. But the basic premise of “f around and find out” holds.
Are you aware that this is your personal opinion? You make it sound like universally agreed fact. I have a different opinion, and operate from a wider definition of “community“ and “system”.
lol yeah sure. I take it you have zero interest in this discussion or to understand my arguments so I wonder why you’re even engaging in it.
There is no “changing definitions” happening here. I could link to definitions of both community and system and point to the one I’m using and the one you seem to be using in an attempt to achieve shared understanding but the way you phrase things really don’t encourage further attempts to communicate.
You can, and you should. We all need a helping hand of a community, and a community to heal. We are social beings. And we carry the responsibility for not helping, too.