You mean like having a billing alert send an event that allows you to trigger custom actions to turn things off? That already exists. It has for years.
> How is AWS suppose to know whether you want to immediately scale or not?
Ask? This is not some impossible problem.
Yes, there is a UX challenge to be solved.
But also, doing so is well within the capabilities of a company like Amazon.
They simply have no incentive to help out since there is less money to be made by making it easier to spend less money. And, purely capitalistically, if you have to pick between a potential bug or misconfiguration that causes extra spending you can walk back with customer support, and a bug or misconfiguration that results in extra downtime for your 7+ figure customers, you pick the latter.