We are in the middle of the first production-scale deployment of a greenfield microservice-based application now and there are certainly a lot of pain points. On the flip side, I've been a part of about half a dozen extremely successful strangler migrations[0], some of which were downright easy even with a complicated business domain. I often wonder if we would have been better off deploying a monolith in half the time and immediately starting a strangler migration once the rate of business changes slows down. I've become more and more convinced over the past decade that Monolith First + Strangler Migration is most stable, safest way to deliver mid-sized software projects.

[0] https://microservices.io/patterns/refactoring/strangler-appl...